whitequark OP , vor 2 Monaten

it took me close to a decade to realize that not only i can do this but i also want to

munin , vor 2 Monaten

@whitequark the really cool part about queerness is getting to discard the usual rules and come up with something that works for your use-case. It's like linux that way.

Unfortunately it's also like linux the -other- way in which people who call themselves queer tend to cluster around a few big names and if you do actually make your own whole thing they'll try to tell you that you're doing it wrong and should be using emacs

whitequark OP , vor 2 Monaten

@munin i have compared this exact thing to linux before. i am so relieved to discover i'm not the only one to have these brainworms

munin , vor 2 Monaten

@whitequark lol, nope, we also have our maker-hooks out and are surfing this one through the desert

whitequark OP , vor 2 Monaten

@munin but yeah i ended up on

• yes, i'm asexual
• no, i don't hate sexuality
• it serves a perfectly clear and reliable instrmental purpose for me that doesn't match what people assume. yes, you have to read the proverbial manual

foone , vor 2 Monaten

@whitequark @munin wish I could find a manual for my sexuality. It's confusing as fuck, no pun intended.

whitequark OP , vor 2 Monaten

@foone @munin i have been actively researching the topic since at least 2019, and i feel like i should get a phd for it or something

it's definitely been like a phd worth of effort